Sunday, November 30, 2008

面对on the way









面对
选得对,走得对,差那一步可能就可以梦到天堂有多美!
考虑是否要走出那一步!对不对?
可是你我没有本事飞!
你说对不对?
事情真的不是你我想象的完美!
从一开始就怀疑这样做到底对不对!
是与非!
谁错谁对!
真的无所谓!
什么都ok!
因为那首on the way!
黄俊源唱得对!
I am on the way,不管对不对,一起学习面对!
随时都要做好心理准备,即使还不曾这样子面对!
该面对,都得面对!
除非不想学习面对!
但至少都得认识自己是谁!
不然眼泪流到天亮又天黑!
谁不曾要学习面对!
只怕你不敢面对!
他唱得真的很对!
是与非,错与对!
陶醉排着队一起来体会!
Anyway,他又不是谁!
不一定听过他的歌后,才学会面对!
他和你一样天生都要学习面对~~~~~这样绝对没什么不ok !
即使一起走到八十岁~~~~~~~~~~~~!
你说对不对???????????

Wednesday, November 26, 2008









恨,通常都来自曾经爱过。这样的恨,可以潜伏在你的心中久久不散。恨,偶而也来自不合眼缘,只是,这种恨的程度没有来自爱的那种根深蒂固。恨,往往也来自双方的互动,就比如,你不去做某件事情,别人就可能不会去恨你。恨,很少会无端端的发生。我们除了学会爱,其实也要学会恨。恨别人时,可以想想为什么要如此?为什么要把不开心的感觉让自己承担?慢慢的,时光冲淡一切的时候,是不是觉得自己很傻呢?那么下次就要学聪明了:与其自己不爽,不如放开怀抱。恨自己时,常常都是因为别人眼前的条件优胜于自己;只是人在恨自己为何如此不济时,往往只会在想要怎样才能拉低别人使自己看起来平等。少数的人在恨自己后,会想如何提升自己的条件,从而制造良性竞争。一样的米,养百样的人;一样的恨的感觉,在人海之中也可以有不同的领悟。上天让我们拥有七情六欲,恨与爱的共存于世,其实就是要考验我们如何选择自己的路:看清前方而心胸宽广的人,恨过后必思进取,其前路自然宽广;心胸狭窄而目光短浅的人,恨过后必只有恨,其前路自然崎岖。

posted by CUTE GIRL...

Sunday, November 23, 2008

~爱情&鞋带~



















爱情与绑鞋带有何关系呢? 嗯…
刚刚学绑,绑了又拆,拆了又绑 — 年幼时的 puppy love !
松松的结 — 不稳的感情,随时散!
鞋带绑太紧,鞋穿了不舒服 — 把对方看得太紧, 透不过气, 迟早会分!
蝴蝶结绑得美,绑的实 — 美好的一段爱情故事!
绑得好就不用拆了,但得时常调整好让它完整 — 一段稳固的爱情是需要双方的妥协!
拆蝴蝶结,一拉就解 — 说分手就分手!
鞋带脱落,被鞋踩肮脏了 — 失恋时落魄的样子!
再绑过 — 新的一段感情!
不想绑了,干脆买不用绑或买黏的 — 王老五的想法!
打死结,不拆了,要拆很麻烦 — 终生大事!
我现在穿着没鞋带的鞋.. 你呢???

-author unknown

Saturday, November 22, 2008

The Interview With God Poem












The Interview With God Poem

I dreamed I had an interview with God.

“So you would like to interview me?” God asked.

“If you have the time” I said.

God smiled. “My time is eternity.”
“What questions do you have in mind for me?”

“What surprises you most about humankind?”

God answered...
“That they get bored with childhood,
they rush to grow up, and then
long to be children again.”

“That they lose their health to make money...
and then lose their money to restore their health.”

“That by thinking anxiously about the future,
they forget the present,
such that they live in neither
the present nor the future.”

"That they live as if they will never die,
and die as though they had never lived.”

God’s hand took mine
and we were silent for a while.

And then I asked...
“As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons
you want your children to learn?”

“To learn they cannot make anyone
love them. All they can do
is let themselves be loved.”

“To learn that it is not good
to compare themselves to others.”

“To learn to forgive
by practicing forgiveness.”

“To learn that it only takes a few seconds
to open profound wounds in those they love,
and it can take many years to heal them.”

“To learn that a rich person
is not one who has the most,
but is one who needs the least.”

“To learn that there are people
who love them dearly,
but simply have not yet learned
how to express or show their feelings.”

“To learn that two people can
look at the same thing
and see it differently.”

“To learn that it is not enough that they
forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.”

"Thank you for your time," I said humbly.

"Is there anything else
you would like your children to know?"

God smiled and said,
“Just know that I am here... always.”

-author unknown


http://www.theinterviewwithgod.com/popup-frame.html

Friday, November 21, 2008

答案

生活中,有些事物不一定要知道它真正的答案!
答案不一定是个真正的标准!
1加1有时会等于3!
知道了答案,是不是代表一种安慰,安心?
不想知道答案,是不是不想面对事实的存在?
只觉得活在当下,真正体验经历那事物,在那种体验经历的过程中而领悟才是最可贵的!
有没有真正的答案并不重要!

Friday, November 14, 2008

人生就像一段故事!

人生就像一段故事!
有些人的开场白很完美,可是不懂得珍惜,不懂得编写自己接下来的故事,最后还是变成不完美!
有些人的开场白不那么完美而懂得珍惜,懂得编写自己想要的故事,最后的故事还是会变得完美!
人生不是个个都十全十美,但懂得编写自己想要的故事,才是最完美!

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

原来爱情是没有理由的当。。。。。。。

开始迷恋爱上一个人真的不需要理由?
太多理由,就不像爱了?
还是太少理由才是真爱?
当爱情长跑时,时间久了,爱上一个人真的需要理由?有了理由,才有理由继续爱?
不爱一个人肯定有很多理由?那才有理由拒绝继续爱?
刚开花的爱情,有理由是最好的?时间久了,会有理由继续爱?而不是没理由不爱下去?

当你真正爱上一个人。。就明白爱情没有任何理由了。
因为你会包容。。不会计较。。什么都会不顾一切为那人。任何理由都是假的?
但当你放弃那人时。。千千万种理由都会有。。